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Talking over Mr. and Mrs. Right

Kuiper Beltran, Casanova-in-training

Issue date: 10/2/09 Section: Sex and Dating
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In writing a column for audiences of both male and female persuasion, I have encountered a tremendous difficulty: the English language lacks a singular non-gender-specific pronoun. For lack of a pronoun, this column's examples will use a hypothetical androgynous name like "Taylor" or "Cthulhu."



It's hard to understand how the dating process naturally progresses. Hollywood has led me to believe that the logical progression goes something like this:

1. Proposal of first date.

2. First date.

3. Marriage.

However, there is a critical step that takes place before marriage can occur: a marriage proposal.

Before you propose marriage, it is probably advisable to determine whether Cthulhu is marriage material. There are a lot of criteria to consider when evaluating someone as a potential partner for marriage. You should try to measure fiscal and sexual prudence. Generally, you want to marry someone who is not prone to spend freely. You also want someone who practices social monogamy. It's also a good idea to marry a person who is openly communicative and isn't deliberately cryptic. In short, any quality that would make someone desirable as a casual dating partner disqualifies them as a potential spouse.

If you intend to evaluate an individual as a potential spouse, you're going to need to get information about that person. Fortunately, there is a person who not only knows more about Cthulhu than anyone else on earth, but also tremendously enjoys talking about Cthulhu. That person is, of course, Cthulhu's mother. Alternatively, you could try asking Cthulhu. As surprising as it might be, most people tend to be experts on themselves, and they also tend to enjoy talking about themselves. I've heard it said that when you provide commentary on an individual, your commentary says more about you than the person you're commenting on. In this sense, asking people to talk about themselves is perfect, since they become both the commentator and the subject. It's the best of both worlds.
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